TANTRIC TIPS FOR
By: Alex Fox | Feb, 14th 2015
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Tantra is a spirit science, and is quite possibly the oldest art of sacred sexuality still practiced today. Tantra literally means expansion of awareness and liberation of energy. We can see why it goes so well with sex. Tantra is a practice, which means that you make it a part of your routine, and is quite powerful once you understand the purpose of Tantric Sex. Contrary to popular belief, climax is not the primary goal of tantra. The purpose of tantra is to ground you in the present moment, to let you savor the time you have, in order to allow you to explore every last ounce of sexual feeling that arises from being intimate with your partner. We live in an instant gratification kind of society, so it might seem kind of counterproductive to not focus directly on reaching that orgasm, but just trust us. Here are a few ways to incorporate tantra the next time you make love so you can see for yourself the power of tantric sex.
This is Where the Magic Happens:
Create a space specifically for lovemaking. Some people even suggest to utilize a room that has clean energy; one that you don’t ever fight in. While it might seem difficult to arrange this kind of space, make your best efforts to make that space all about love. Light candles, arrange some flowers, dim the lights, burn some essential oils, and make sure your bed has plenty of soft stuff to keep you comfortable in those crazy sexy positions you love so much.
Focus on your Breathing:
Focusing on your breathing is central to all meditation and yoga practices. More importantly breath is central to our existence. Try to circle your breathing with your partner’s, take long, deep breaths and imagine the breath going straight to your most sensitive spots. Energize every breath coming out of your body with loving intentions and be filled by the same when your partner exhales. You will actually start to feel each others arousal.
Let your sight be your guide:
Many of us don’t even consider whether our eyes are open or closed during sex. Try to keep your eyes on your partner to enhance the level of intimacy between the two of you. It’s incredibly sexy to see your lover enjoying making love to you, to see the passion on their face, the shape of their body, and the excitement in their eyes. Love is a beautiful thing to witness, so open those eyes and look at your lover.
Take your time and love every moment
Foreplay is essential to incredibly powerful sex. Take the time to find out what your partner loves, what drives them wild, and then take the time to do it. Ask them exactly how they like to be touched, tossed, or teased. Listen well and follow instructions. Remember to savor the intense arousal you will feel, and feel every part of it. This will ensure that your partner can reach climax as easily as you can and increases your chances of simultaneous orgasms.
Making love is a beautiful thing: A special and sacred thing. If you are lucky enough to share this kind of intimacy with someone you care about, then tantric sex is an excellent way to strengthen your bond and significantly enhance your sexual experiences together. It’s all about intention, you get out what you put in. So, go all in and have a very sensual Valentine’s Day!